Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Settling in & making changes



This weekend I unpacked the last few boxes after moving into the new place. I stuffed 8 boxes in the office & procrastinated. Plus I didn't really know where to put it. I love the new place & I really love being back in Sherman but I don't love the mortgage payment. It actually scares me. I'm realizing the responsibility of owning a home. I've been making myself be super cheap lately. Trying to save here & there. It's starting to become a habit & I like that. I'm trying to simplify our bills & cut out anything unnecessary. It's making me feel better. I think clearing out the clutter financially can be just as gratifying as cleaning out a messy closet. At church Sunday we heard a wonderful message. It's a series on Margins. He talks about not living at or beyond your means & leaving margins for when something doesn't go as planned. And to apply these margins to everything... Finances, time, work, kids. I'm guilty of maxing out my limit in time, money, energy, everything. I'm learning that life isn't about that. It's about quality over quantity. I'd rather have the basics I need & be happy than to have expensive things. I'd rather have a few really great friends than a ton of fair weather friends. I'd rather spend my time doing things we really enjoy than thinking I have to attend every single event. I'm trying really hard to make changes & I know in the long run they will pay off. I'm really looking forward to the next 7 weeks of our Margins series at church because that is exactly what I need right now. God has perfect timing.

4 comments:

  1. I love your way of thinking. During this pregnancy, I've changed my way of thinking. "Things" don't matter....but family does. I would rather do without, work part time, and get to spend quality time with my future son. Quality, is SO more important than the quantity.

    Thanks for sharing, Kisha!

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  2. You know Tonya, I didn't think that way until I got pregnant with Noah. Before then my concerns were getting my hair & nails done, tanning & work. Ha ha! Having a child can totally change your perspective. You become more willing to make sacrifices for your little baby. I'm so excited for you & can't wait to meet your little angel.

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  3. Just wanted to say hi. I read a couple of your posts (good luck with the potty training!) but mostly wanted to say how gorgeous thoe photos on the sidebar are. It's terrific work!

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  4. Hi & Thank you! My friend Jill did them. She's great. Those were our family/Noah's 2 yr pics :)

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